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In The Middle of 22 Years Old

In five month later im going to be 23... Uh My God..
Even it's quite a long time a head but i've already much thinking. About life, family, career, my goal, and so on.
Twenty three..Twenty three..twenty threee..YUP 23!!

In psychology theory there's a phase called young adulthood. (so it's definetly i'm in the early middle of it).
The age is between 20-40. In this phase people face with reality, independency and looking for intimacy relationship with other. They start to work, have their own family, and become more independent. The theory from Erik Ericson said there is 8 stage Weeelllll-------- im not going to talk much about theory, anyway.. -_-" *ugh it's just denial..

I just wondering,,at this point will i gonna make it? Is there any possibility for me to reach my goal in this year?? i have a plan. In my mind it's like a random puzzle to stick together to become a right shape.

i had a conversation with my newbie..she said 23 is the time where actaully people have a tendecy to find their mr right. it's a kind of need of intimacy.

Well... a long..long way to go..Im 22..i got a job, i have a boyfriend.. Im well educated..(hahaha..what it's that *evil*)
inspite of that all about,,i have a willingness to take my master degree..i have my plan for my future so do my boyfriend..yeah...i know obviosly that we have to make a plan for future..
But the other side of me..which i called a mommy soul" suddenly appear and drive me to get a married at early adulthood.
Can you imagine,, you are young, you finish your study, you got a job, your parents support you, your boyfriend already ask to marry next year. Can you imagine how sweet it is to wake up in the morning and see your beloved beside you, Can you feel the excitment when you're pregrenant, and he happiness you can take when actually you become a MOTHER :)

Weeeewww.... i want it!! okay,,first of all mybe i can tell a story how i meet him 3 years ago..
at the next post maybe..we have a plan..and hope our plan will be soon release by hope, faith, effort, and Guide from above of course..amiinnn


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